As the oldest member of the Elayos team, my children are all grown up! I first became a mum 27years ago! It has been the busiest and most fulfilling time of my life , I have loved being a mum of four. They are quite close in age, my eldest was just 6 when I had baby no.4. So life has always been very busy, but I wouldn’t change a thing, the good, the bad, and the ugly!
When my youngest was 2 I set up and co run a parent and toddler group, which grew and grew. My daughter left to go to school and I was still running the group 16years later. I loved getting to know all the families coming alongside new mums who just needed a friendly “adult” face , and a listening ear. To be able to talk about their sleepless nights, and more, whilst enjoying an “actual HOT drink!”.
I believe that there are definite seasons in life. When I learned about Elayos, I was just beginning to struggle with “what was next for me?” Struggling as my nest was fast becoming empty. Children were all grown up, 2 had left home , and another will leave later this year. It was perfect timing for my new season to begin! I find it difficult to express how much I love my job as an Elayos doula. To be a birth doula is a privilege. To be allowed into that most vulnerable and special space, to come alongside and support and advocate for a birthing mother, and to be part of their journey into parenthood. As an Elayos doula this can be helping the parent navigate through some of the most difficult circumstances, but being able to empower them with all the information they need to be able to make their own independent decisions is very fulfilling. I have been with Elayos for 3 years now, and I love it!